I like what you are saying. I believe we have to accept people's truth [without punishing them for it] if we want their truth. Like you said, some people just won't accept our truth.

The other day my boyfriend told me that i had hurt his feelings and that's why he didn't reply. Im rather oblivious so i hadn't noticed he didn't reply.

My first instinct was to point out that i had only been stating reality and that i was trying to help him set himself up for success. Instead i just thanked him for telling me that his feelings were hurt.