How does this person respond to trouble and pressure?
Unlike the courtship which is often grossly unrealistic-everything is more glamorous than real life-marriage and life are reality. We live in an imperfect,broken world. Things happen.
- People get lain off.
-Doctors say, "you have cancer, and we must remove your breast.
-Men are hit by lightning on the golf course or get stuck by a car as they are changing a flat tire on the freeway.
-Automobile accidents leave your face scarred.
-Your health collapses.
-Babies tumble into swimming pools and drown.
-Illness strikes.
-Immigration cancels your visa.
How does the one you are thinking about marrying respond to pressure and stress? Can it be faced? When there is a disagreement, can he or she say, "I really am sorry. Please forgive me. I accept responsibility for what happened"? Or is the person a "no-faulter" the kind that always has to place the blame on someone else(probably you) for what happened?
It's pretty much in general however, things might get magical if you meet 1 out of a million that contrary of those. Let's say, we all the expectations in life.. have we ever say "I'm contented"?
Reasoning is one that separates us as being. When Adam and Eve was created there's no tale about them reasoning of what they have until the serpent came and have sin.
Regardless of what or who we encounter for "failure" neither you or me can't generalize things such us this.
In times of great stress or adversity, it's always best to keep busy, to plow your anger and your energy into something positive. - Lee Iacocca
Have a blessed evening @bj09
Good work :)
Thank you :)
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your posts always make me think. Life can really suck sometime.. thats for sure, but how we deal.. that makes all the difference. I try to be good and not take it out on others, but i would have to say i am a bit of both..
which are u?