Hmmm...if you were in his shoes, do you think you would have sex with her?

I bet that by writing about her she has become a person to you (I'm not being clever, I feel that way about a neanderthal (guy) and tons of different species aliens). I've just had a thought; I do not find it that easy to have male friends among Terrans, but with alien humans, most of my friends are or seem to be male!