Who Am I

Good day everyone,
Why I wrote this post is because I've been disappointed many times by the people I called friends.
I've been humiliated by the people I called close friends.
You know what?
They all came and gone yet I still remained unchanged.
I thought that they will change my mentality, my emotions, my way of life , my attitude, my profession, etc, but all they did was just to come, increase the number and comsume food, waste oxygen in burn fires, make noise and yet I still remained unchanged.
I think I have to change them since they can't change me but the fact remains that I can't even change myself.
For real!
Am I meant to be like this forever?
No!
Something must be done.
Why are these people coming and going yet I still remained on a particular point?
Who am I?
So if these people come and go without anything tangible reason then something is wrong with me.
A friend once told me that I'm the type that never changes.
Therefore; I admit the fact that I can't be changed.
But I have to change the mentality of the people that come to me if I can.
I'm Mr barracks