I do not agree with you second point. Of course it is not the point to always be on your phone while she is near. However I think you can check your messages and all even with her presence and this will not bother a woman who is understanding. Sometime it is just about to be near eachother. Sometime you can play on your phone and she checks her emails or something and it is still really cool for her to be with you or wice versa. I just want to say it really depends on the couple. Still very nice post though, keep it up :)