From reading your comments on each point, it looks like you do overwhelmingly support the hard fork. Your reservations could easily be addressed on the way to the next HF.

While your position might not be a "hard stance", I gather this is just considering the politics. I hope you choose to implement it, I think we need most of the changes but I would also agree with you that we need more specific hard fork (separating community and technical changes). To do this we need better communication by @sneak and the other devs. They do an admirable amount, and it's not easy, but increased clarity would go a long way.