THE HIGHER STANDARD OF FRIENDSHIP

The beauty & essence of friendship is not in their ability & readiness to call or stay with each other every day.
Neither is it in the bliss of having someone's place to go with the expectation and assurance of comfort, convenience, and hospitality.

The beauty of friendship lies in the ability to foster & birth a synergy of progress and development.
👉Comfort, kindness & merriment are part of the variables in the equation of the relationship 👈
However, for a friendship to be impactful and meaningful, the collaborative investment in synergizing of strength, intelligence & resources cannot be neglected.

This is highly fundamental if there will ever be an upward shift of outcome in your overall experience.
If your speed of development, refinement & progress is 10km/year when you are alone, it should be 20 or 25km/year when the process of togetherness is initiated.
Iron sharpeneth.....+++++++++.....iron.

If s/he comes and your speed retrogressed to 5km, please🙏..I beg you in the name of your ancestors 🤣...do the needful.
Hey! I don't say you should add him/her to your enemy list.
Let's ride on🚴...🚴

Firstly, you are not a hospital that accommodates patients, even hospital bills patients.
There is a mutual exchange of value and resources.

Neither are you a life doctor, even doctors observe and experience their personal moment of injection.
Not everybody that exists around you should be on your friend list.

You are just meant to know some people's name only & the sound of their 'good morning'🤣.
Anyone that can't inject you positively in any form should be ejected from your core list of friends.
However, the fact that some people can't inject you doesn't mean they are your enemy of progress.
No, they aren't!

But don't call or relate with them with the kind of energy, time & commitment that serious friendship requires.
And if the button of ejection is too heavy for you to press, remember how Jesus ejected one guy from his twelve friends/disciples.

You need quality people in your circle of friends if you truly want to grow & move.
You've got to save your energy & maximize your time by redefining your relationship & understanding your definition.