I think you are overthinking video games. Gamers have a higher IQ than non-gamers and a faster hand eye coordination. It has also been shown that committing violent acts in video games actually helps people keep their cool in real life. The opposite of what the liberal media would have you believe. FPS games in particular can teach people just how easy it is to take a bullet not just the ease of killing. No re spawn IRL and people need re-spawns frequently in game.