7 Types Of People You Need To Avoid In Life | #5 Will Shock You.
Today i want to talk about seven poeple that you completely need to avoid. The reason why you need to avoid these people is because they can be detrimental to your health and if you wanna live a healthy long life, then you need to completely avoid these types of people i'm about to discuss.
(1) The first person that you need to avoid are Gossips, that is, people who talk alot about other people.
These are those who will criticize, agonize, and talk about other people behind their backs. Always stop a gossip before they start. When they start talking about people and they added a negative aspect to them, you just gotta say "Stop, i don't wanna hear that" and then you try to evade the conversation. If you listen to gossips, what tends to happen is that you will end up either gossiping or you might start having negative feelings about the person who is being gossiped about. Many times a gossip is within your own circle like people you work with, family members or friends, set standards and teach them that gossip does not help anyone including the person who is being gossiped about.
(2) The second person you need to avoid are jealous haters.
Jealous haters are basically people who would wanna get in your way. Alot of them are gonna try to devalue you, they gonna say that you not enough but what you have to understand is that these people can still help you somehow. I always believe that critics make you do better but haters make you do it faster. Now you might be asking, "how do i know someone is a jealous hater?" Well usually, when you tell them something good, they try to shut it down automatically or they try to devalue what you are telling them. They try to limit your accomplishments and make you feel not doing enough. Don't let these haters dethrone you, don't let them devalue yourself, rather see yourself as special.
(3) The third kind of person you need to avoid are time wasters.
Time wasters come in many different forms. So you have to understand what kind of time waster is it you are dealing with. Some people like to ramble on nonsense and some people like to talk about things that aren't important like celebrity gossips or anything just to waste time, so you have to shut them down and ask them to get to the point so that you can get on with your business. Most time wasters are completely unaware of time. They don't know how to manage time themselves and so its not intentional for them to take away your time. What you need to do is show them love and let them know that you have other important things to do now and you will get to them at another time.
(4) The fourth kind of person that you completely need to avoid are money grabbers.
Money grabblers are the gluttons, the spendtrifts, people who run away when its time to pay the bill, people who just want to spend your money. How do you know who a money grabber is? What i want you to do is put down your statement and ask yourself "Who have i spent my money unnecessarily on? Who grabbed my money"? I might buy things for someone to help them or i might buy it because you asked me. Alot of times money grabbers ask things that they don't even need and thats how you know you are dealing with a money grabber. With money grabbers around, you can't save, so you have to avoid them.
(5) The fifth kind of person you should completely avoid are over-sensitive people.
That is, people who come with so much emotional baggage, people who have ten thousand problems or more. Now how do you know if someone is an over-sensitive person? Usually you can tell when they are very picky person. They are picky about their cloths, about their conversations, like they feel like they are always attacked, they are picky about everything that they see and do. These people might be helpful in your life but try not to spend too much time with them if you have big goals that you want to accomplish. This number shocked me because i am over-sensitive and introverted too, but the truth must be told.
(6) The sixth kind of person you want to avoid are excuse makers.
These are people that come up with excuses all the time. They are always hungry, always tired, always bored, always broke, they have tons of excuses and they never wanna take actions because they want you to get caught up in their excuses. There are lot of times where i have seen successful people where also excuse makers. So understand that excuse makers come in all different forms. You have to be willing to understand what their excuse is, dismiss it and help that person or completely avoid them when they make their excuses. There are lot of people who are gonna tell why it won't work or why you shouldnt do it. Sometimes they might fear for you but that fear is illegitimate. You should be able to understand it and dismiss it with something that you believe.
(7) The seventh person you should avoid are mis-educated people.
Here i don't mean non-educated people, but mis educated people, that is, people who have the wrong ideas about what it takes for you to become successful. There are lots of people who are highly educated, they have credentials, awards, degrees, and all kinds of training but it doesn't necessarily mean that they know exactly what you need to do to become successful in a given area. Sometimes they there are wolves in sheep's clothing. This means that they are actually enemies disgused as friends so you have to watchout who they are and who you are dealing with. There are lots of miseducated people, and you have to understand that some of them are educated in societal terms, but they may not have common sense or they may not have wisdom or simple understanding.
In summary, sometimes you realize that there is no way you can avoid these people but what's best to do is to understand them, to be able to gather the intelligence necessary to make the wise choices related with what you doing. So understand who you are dealing with and try to gravitate towards people that are gonna help you to reach yout highest goals.
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Lovely avoider sample. Well I can't say I am all of it but it ring me in 1 or 2.....
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hi @paramimd
I didn't hear from you in a while so I decided to check your blog to see if you're still active or taking a break.
Im glad to see tht you're still around. Obviously upvoted :)
ps. I wanted to ask you a question. You mind telling me what's your view on latest HF20 introduced on steemit? Did it affect you in any way?
Obviously upvoted.
Yours, Piotr
ps. I really enjoyed reading your post. interesting choice ot topic @paramimd
@crypto.piotr thanks for checking up on me and for upvoting. Here is a new post on how i feel about the HF20 update. 👇
How I Feel About The HF20 Update 😭