I applaud your openness, and how you sexually express yourself. I would love to engage in a sexually based post such as this one. I love sex.....there are things I would love to explore, but my wife is not as willing, I think. I'm not sure how to approach her with my ideas.
Thank you. I appreciate your support.
As for you/your wife...the most telling words in your comment are “my ideas.” It won’t work to open her up if it is your ideas. It has to be hers. All you can do is plant seeds letting her know you love her so much that she is free to be herself and then detach from outcomes.