Why be different is better. Because:

1. Who you follow might start from scratch. Imagine you're one and only human, what should you do? You need to be yourself.
2. Some opinions are way how people try to defeat you or just hate you and want you not seen in better appearance.
3. The different one looks strange, but giving advantages.
4. Leads you to be success
5. Creates something new that pleases spirit. Everyone have different spiritual value, and cannot be stolen. This applies to art too.

Train to be not shy increases your fortune, as you can do more things than you shy. Now I train myself how to not shy.