Both sexes don't know what to do |Valentine's day|
Man and woman both don't know what another sex want.
I had preconceived notion that women are better at social interactions. I thought that they knew what to do with men, what we want, and how to be seductive. Now I know that It is 100% false.
This stupid idea came to me through TV and internet, not from my own experiance. What can I get from experiance?
- Women and men till 18 - 35 think that another sex is not like my.
This is why I wrote this post. I saw a 21 year old woman which wrote
"I understood that men are people. They have emotions, simple dreams and thoughts..."
She understood this between 18 and 21. Till this age she thought that men really different. It's maybe supernatural perception of another sex.
We can think that this state of mind was basis for this
I've read that some men told that she is a witch because he wants to have sex with her. Not because she is sexually attractive, but because she is a "witch"
When I was between 6 - 9 years old i heard from one boy
"Kolia, girls are stupid, don't play with them."
It's what some boys think about girls. Why did we think that they stupid? They play different games, they love something else.
- Some girls are ZERO at seduction game.
Some men too, I would say that 20 - 60% are can't start talk with complete stranger, and then we think why there is so many lonely people.
They can only blink of their eyes, and wait till you approach. And even this not enought. Then you draw in the long game, where you do long conversation, to make her feel that you like her, that you want to speak with her. You almost speak with yourself. It's hard for her to reply.
You start thinking that she is shy or stupid. Game over
Do you recognize some type of young men? We, men, also have been in this situation. I was in situation when woman approached me and I could not tell her what I think.
- Women that want to know what men want
They go to special "master classes" about how to seduce a millioner with words, can of popcorn, anti dog signal and whatever they want.
Those master classes teach women that they worth more thatn they thought. They teach them that it's simple to find a millioner, and make him invest in YOU, my dear princes. They teach that you can be whatever, but with those words and body position he will be your.
They teach that when woman have sex with man, then it's not his accomplisment, it's her. She is a hunter, he is a victim. We can say that they teach them to be whores. Sex for the sake of sex. They teach that men want only sex, find a man who would ask you only to have sex with him. Every other aspect of family life otsource to special workers - nanny will take care of child, housemaid for house and restaurant for food.
Pick up gurus became guru to women. They now teach women how to pick up. This is another case where we are equal.
- Women use astrology to find a man.
Women and men use really stupid tools to find love.
Astrology - to know when and how we will meet,
Black magic to make man to become a zombie and love her for nothing.
Credit- get huge debt for buying car and expensive clothes to impress a woman.
The human mind is a complex and intricate thing. It's hard to generalized what each person wants. The issue of what men and women want is subjective.
But most people want same things - help their parents, sex with beautiful, kind and successful people, money, home, car and something for their taste.