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RE: If we were to have another son or daughter, we would raise them VERY differently.
This is why it is so critical that grand parents participate with the process of raising our young precious babies. Parents are just too young and don't have the benefit of experience. But we do. By engaging with the next generation we can bring some wisdom to the process and break these cycles! <3 My heart aches with the mistakes we made, but part of the process is to forgive myself, learn from them and make sure we take action as a result. Otherwise our silence ends up being the biggest mistake and we end up consenting to the harm that was created.
Absolutly. I have 2 grandbabies under 3 and I am so involved with their lives. I fully support my daughter's choices to raise them differently than I knew to raise her...I am proud of the mamas that are rising up now and taking our rights as parents back. It is my job to not let these mistakes and damage be repeated with my grandchildren. I am lucky that my children are aware and that I began teaching them tbe truth when I did, even if it was to late for them.
<3 I am not a grand parent yet, but when the day comes, I pray I can help them through it all. It will depend on the ladies they find as well. But I am confident that they will be conscious because of how we raised our sons. I have faith it will work out as I have faith in my sons! They know why we took this path. My youngest is in the city and he see now why we live the way we do. He gets it!