I've never personally had somebody call me names, but then again, men are treated differently than women. In safe containers like what we create in groups, that does not happen, but there is a risk of it happening in public. If it ever did, I would be the first to stand and confront those who would try to shame or guilt others as that form of violence is not tolerated at all. It would be a learning curve but the more that people start to open up and find the support to confront those who lash out with violence, then the sooner we can get the healing process going and really change this world for the better. It is indeed hard work!