Ulog # 075 | My Daughter Made it Safely to Chile

in #ulogs5 years ago (edited)


Greetings, everyone
You may see this as an exageration, but the tension Venezuelans feel sending a loved one out of the country and the relief experienced when you get the call that tells you "I'm here. I'm ok." is only comparable with what people in extreme life-or-death situations live. The Schindler List comes to my mind.

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My daughter made it! Vivian is out.


It is a victory for us, after so many obstacles. It was the result of a big team work, starring Vivian's mother, her maternal aunts and unlces, some of my relatives, and even #Steem and #Steemit and all the generous Steemians who make this platform such a wonderful place to be. With the help I got from many of you, I was able to afford my traveling to the Chilean Consulate in Puerto Ordaz and many last-minute-expenses that came up later. I felt useful, I felt up to the task and was able to contribute my share to make my daughter's release from this nightmare a reality.

After we had gone through so much paperwork and two failed applications to the Visa, we had our first victory on September 11th. We made 6 packets of documents just in case she was asked copies at every airport/flight. We thougth we had everything figured out.

On Sunday 15th she was in Maiquetía with her mother ready to take her first flight when they were told that they had to pay some 116$ extra because she was a minor travelling alone. That was supposed to have been clear from the moment the reservation was done, but for some reason it came up just then. Her mother worked miracles to solve that and then I got a nervous call. They were not going to let her board the plane unless there was an adult relative waiting for her in Lima (it was clear, or so we thought, from the beginning that she was just in transit and that 3 hours later she would take another flight to Chile). As you know from previous post, I have two relatives in Lima: my son, José and my brother, Aarón, but none of them were going to be able to be at the airport for different reasons. They lived some 2 hours away, they worked until late at night, one of them had been kicked out of his rented room and was repeatedly denied renting because of his nationality, their phones had been failing (battery, etc.); in short, it was going to be complicated to square some logistics.

When negotiations did not work and it was a final decision that she needed relatives in Lima or she would not leave Venezuela, the miracle happened. My brother answered the phone and provided the contact information needed to green-light my daughter, he was able to leave work early, my son reported some time later, the two of them were able to coordinate a trip to the airport, and I was able to find a friend who would send my brother some money to help with the extra expenses and compensate for the lost hours of work that day.

At the end their presence was not even necessary. They were not able to even see my daughter but via a video call. As we suspected, the whole thing was a charade. She was directed to her connecting flight without having to go through customs. My brother and son were very disappointed, but at the same time relieved that no further paperwork was needed.


By 4 am today, she was safely meeting family.

Meeting her aunt and uncle at Antofagasta


She still has a long way to go. She will be travelling to Brazil after a few days with her aunt in Chile.

Even the weather was good today, not the 12 C / 53 F that was anticipated.

After many sleepless and stressful days, we are very happy. This is just the beginning of a family struggle. We join so many other families that have been split by this unprecedented crisis. We hope our neighboring countries undertsand the magnitude of the tragedy and the fragility of our systems. Those who reject Venezuelans now came to Venezuela years ago when here things were better and more promising. Those who want Venezuelans out of their land may need a country to receive them if theirs become hostile any time soon. Anything can happen in this world of ours.

Not all the Venezuelans who leave the country are criminals, lazy, or irritating guests. Most of them are actually young, talented people eager to prove their worth, work hard, live a decent life, provide for their families, and contribute to their host countries.

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Thanks for sharing your last couple posts, they sort of leave me at a loss for words so let me just say best wishes!

Thank you very much. I appreciate it.

Hi my friend,
That's great news! There must be a huge relief for you and your family to know that your daughter has arrived safely.

Best regards,

Hi, Achim
Thanks a lot. One of the first images she sent from her aunt's house was that of apples and pears. We used to have those any time we wanted. Now, one costs as much as a month's salary. The joy of seeing her taste those fruits! :)


And how interesting for me that Vivian is in Antofoagasta. When I was still working with my Australian client, the University of Newcastle, the Education Faculty had a programme there - in Early Childhood Development.

Anyhow, I am so glad that the first step of the journey is done and that Vivian will soon be safely in Brazil.

Too much of what is happening in Venezuela has resonance for Africa, especially when you say

Those who reject Venezuelans now came to Venezuela years ago when here things were better and more promising. Those who want Venezuelans out of their land may need a country to receive them if theirs become hostile any time soon.

I was brought to South Africa as a three-year old. I know now other country. I love no other country although I hark back to bits of my British heritage. There are elements here that would have the likes of me, leave. Even though I worked to free the country of apartheid and...

Anyhow, let me not put a pall on the happiness of this stage of the journey.

Wishing you better health and God speed to your family


Thanks for stopping by, Fiona. I understand the South African drama. It is sad that it came to this. As I have commented to other Southafrican friends, I hope it never escalates to violence and racial nationalism.
Nothing more dangerous than a misdirected nationalism. It is becoming ugly in South America because of the Venezuelan exodus. There are thousands of untold stories of injustices committed against decent people because of the mistakes of a few reckless minds. I hope one day all these countries see the contributions Venezuelan professionals can make in their proper perspective. They are benefitting from cheap highly qualified laborers who cannot demand fair treatment in any court, but those stories do not get as publicized as those of burglars or killers.
Anyway, we are taking it one day at the time and today we celebrate.
You have a wonderful day. Blessings to you all

Hello, Henrry

I hope it never escalates to violence and racial nationalism.

I fear this is not far from the surface and there is already xenophobic violence which broke out last week. It is sending Nigerians and Zimbabweans, among others back to their home countries. Julius Malema and his accolytes are fomenting the latter. Although they've been rather quiet in the last few weeks. Long may that last.

Enjoy your celebrations and trust all in your family will be safe.

"There are thousands of untold stories of injustices committed against decent people because of the mistakes of a few reckless minds."

Sad, true, and beyond words.
It seems to me that our best bet for now for telling these stories is in the guise of fiction or in movies like Schindler's List, a true story that could pass for a Hollywood movie.

I am so glad that she made it safely. I can't imagine how stressful the whole experience must have been for you all

Also I'm sorry to hear about your kidney issue-- wishing you a speedy recovery

Thank you very much, my friend. How you've been doing well. Miss your stories.

Thank you very much,
My friend. How you've been doing
Well. Miss your stories.

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I'm so happy for you all! What a saga. She looks so happy to be there.

Thank you very much for stopping by. She has been enjoying every second of her staying there. Her aunt has made her feel at home.

Great news.

Every father needs to know his daughter is safe.

Namaste, JaiChai

Thank you very much

Gracias a Dios lo lograron. ¡Enhorabuena, mi amigo!

:) Gracias, amiga.

Happy Ending

at last - what a relief - and I hear you, the "Schindler's List" level of Angst.
Incredible photo - the lights! Victory! Your beautiful daughter!

Your family is wonderful. May all of you be welcomed and appreciated wherever you go.

Thank you so much. Wish the same for your son in Spain and the one who wants to live in Brazil. Who knows, maybe one day she'll be in a jazz club and your son will be performing :)

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