I certainly don't have this kind of feeling or connection with cemeteries. Probably because I am way scared of ghosts. They sure are calm but not peaceful i would say.

It would be quite out there, but in my mind I would start thinking about a lady in white looking at me or something ghostly. So everytime I pass from a cemetery, it creeps me out.

When you say

Personally, when I pass, I'd like to be composted and used as fertilizer for an apple tree, but this has obviously not always been possible.

I am really just sitting here and thinking like ok there are humans who think something like this. I have never met anyone who plans on where they want to be buried and how, it justs with people in 80s I guess? Are you eighty or young maybe? just curious