I'm the same way. Take care of everyone else and when I fall over then take me somewhere. I do agree about not worrying over something you don't know about or can't control. When I was looking at possibly having cancer with my recent surgery everyone was giving me trouble because I wasn't worried. Why should I be? It's not going to fix anything and we'll deal with it when we have to.

With you son being there, don't be so stubborn and not let them help you.