Hello Friends of steemit today I want to talk about an issue that I am sure is not only a dilemma in my head but in the rest of the world and the various positions that we usually have regarding this issue. And when we talk about love we speak of a pure, sincere and true feeling. Something that fills us and makes us think that we can trust and give without conditions but when that person to whom we give that feeling betrays us, lies to us, or uses us, there is always the option to forgive. But that forgiveness has different ways to follow, there is forgiveness to close that chapter of our lives and move forward, forgiveness to give a new opportunity and forgiveness that only time is responsible for giving when the past stops hurting.
But it is that all this depends on how each person expresses their feelings or the character of each one, their beliefs and thoughts. Well now forgive and move forward closing that chapter of your life is not easy because many times the memories and things in common make that forgetfulness and more so if they are constant.
But much more difficult is the forgiveness to give a new opportunity because in this many questions are given in which many times the answers are part at the end of a god and not a new opportunity, since realizing that if it were real and sincere the feeling never had to see a pardon for treason because there would never have been such a betrayal. Well, although it is human's mistake is also human thinking and reflect on our actions because when we decide to betray we consciously decide to hurt the other person and when there is pure and sincere love your priority is always to care for and protect the other if there really is that love that fills your life and complements you completely there would be no reason to betray it and if you do it is because it is not really there, your suffering does not hurt, you do not care about your pain, so why ask for forgiveness or forgive something that from the beginning it was not real.
And finally there is the forgiveness that only time gives or heals and it is that there are times when there are wounds that only time and distance can help to heal and forget, it is the forgiveness that is not earned by asking and sometimes never you get to give because there are wounds so big and strong that only time is responsible for giving you an answer to tell you if you are ready to continue, to start again without fears, without scars, without a ghost of the past and that is the longest and bitterest forgiveness that can be expected.
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Todo un dilema esto del amor. Hermoso dibujo, saludos @nayromero
Muchas gracias, igual saludos.
When we forgive we are the biggest benefactors. Forgiving does not always mean we open ourselves up to be hurt again or give the opportunity to have a repeat. Holding a grudge or bitterness can be tracked as the cause of many health issues. An abusive person should be forgiven, but not given the opportunity to abuse you again. On a different level, we all we fail at times and people in our lives will fail. Forgiveness is part of normal health relationships.
Nice post!
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Daddy William
I share your opinion, it is not always forgiven to open up to give a new opportunity many times it is done by ourselves, by our inner peace and tranquility.