Happy Anniversary! Yes! God-centered is the whole key. Remembering we answer to God first, usually keeps most everything right in a marriage. If we are examining ourselves first with God's guidance there's less for our spouse to wish to improve.

It's also really lovely when you can both trust that each of you wants the very best for the other. When things go side-ways, you can know that the other person never intended harm or selfishness. That is such a relief.