Your kid is of age to go school, why isn't she in school yet? You're so young and you have two kids, why aren't you working? How do you support your family? Do you have enough to eat? How about emergency funds? How about your baby? How about money to send your eldest to school? Don't you have savings? Are you going to stay at home forever? How much does your husband earn? He doesn't seem like he's earning much, are you able to make it every month with him working alone? Are you getting help from your family?

Perhaps well meaning, but it does more damage then intended (I hope not intentional)

Money isn't everything.
Follow your truth <33