ULOG-QUOTES #3 : "Criticism is a product of a negative mind. Don't let those words of negative people affect and stop you for being you."
There are individuals who will judge you and criticize you. But don't let them stop and change you for being you. If your happy with who and what you are then who are they to mess up in your own happiness. Listen to what they say and let your mind digests it. Take in the good points especially if it has something to do with your attitude and reflect whether there right of what they are saying and threw away those words that aren't healthy and completely nonsense at all. Don't let them oversteps your boundary. If they criticize you because of your image like your having a fat body figure for example is rude. Cases like this is what I usually saw on reality TV and it does affect them. They have decided to change there self because the people that surrounds them told them so. That's why I came up with the quote below.
Honestly, if your just changing yourself so that others won't judge you anymore is like fooling your own self. I mean if your only trying to fit in in that so-called "society" of others without considering the fact that you, yourself isn't really comfortable, then why do it? Change yourself because you wanted it and not because others want it for you. Workout, go to the gym and achieve that perfect shape you've been dreaming of and not because you are forced to do it. There's a difference when you say, "I change because I wanted to have a healthy lifestyle, to live longer and it makes me feel fulfilled. " rather than saying, " I change because they told me I'm fat already and I badly need to lose some weight."
See, change for the betterment of yourself without sacrificing anything big such as the joy it brings you. Like what I have said, criticisms are a product of negative minds, of negative and judgemental people. Don't let there words stop you for being you. Remember that there will always be someone who accepts and love every inch of you. :)
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tama, you don't need their empathy. do something according to your happiness, it's not them will benifits but you, no one else.hehe maganda kabayan, nice one
True kabayan.. As long as you haven't hurt anyone's feelings then nevermind those niggas out there who just wanted to mess up with your own happiness. Thanks kabayan for visiting ..
nope, thanks to you, kabasa kog mga nindot nga lines. That's what i did sometimes, visiting others to help me learning the different style of writing.
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