Random Thoughts#1

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25 and still not married, Gail?

I hear this often from my friends and family friends as well. Before, I would be bitter by this fact. I would get annoyed. I had been to a long but failed relationship, and now I reached the point of almost on the point of exchanging wedding vows -- but none of those two took me to the altar in front of everyone and in front of the lord.

I never hated those guys who broke my heart though, but instead I am thankful for them. I thankful that I met them because those times were the moments I got to be deeply connected with God. My character has been built, my personality has been stronger. Hate will just ruin me. It will just keep on dragging me down.

I could not say that I got matured but it is just that my focus has been changed. It was just then that after those heartbreaks, I realized that there is more to life than being in love. There is more to life than just to establish your own family. I am not neglecting though the fact though that having one in the future would be a great opportunity.

Those heartbreaks allowed me to see my potential as well. I could really do more. I could give my best shot on the things that I am passionate about.

I might not be able to say the words, I have found the one whom my soul loves. But I know that God always has a perfect timing for us. It might not be now. It might not be even soon, but I know it would something I would look forward to.