ULOG #2: My own ways to uphold a good and healthy relationship

in #ulog6 years ago

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  1. Put God at the center of everything.

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  1. Constant communication with your partner is everything. Especially for LDR relationships, this one is really needed. You communicate well with your partner; tell him/her how you feel, ask him/her how he/she feels. Make him/her feel that he/she can trust you and talk about anything with you.

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  1. Spend some quality time with each other. Spend some time where it’s just you and your partner talking or doing something. Make it a habit.

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  1. Do not let an argument go unfixed. Especially, do not let him/her sleep while the matters are unfixed. If you did, make it up to him/her immediately in the morning.

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  1. If you are mad to your partner and you wanted to say something to him/her, just pause for a second. Think first about what you have to say, if it is really necessary to say it when you’re mad. Remember, hurtful words can’t be taken back once spoken.

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  1. Do not make any rush decisions, especially if you are supper happy or you are incredibly angry. And the two of you should talk about every decision especially if it’s for the both of you.

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  1. Appreciate every efforts and make an effort as well. Do not let a small effort go unnoticed. A simple gesture of a ‘smile’ and ‘thank you’ will do. Big efforts are actually an accumulation of small efforts that your partner tries to make.

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  1. DO NOT EXPECT HIM/HER TO BE PERFECT! Understand that your partner isn’t perfect. He/she can also make mistakes, it’s a human thing after all. Learn to forgive and understand.

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  1. DO NOT BRING UP ANY PAST ARGUMENTS, especially the one that is already settled. If you are fighting, just stick to the current facts and do not bring up any past issues.

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  1. Plan for your future together. There’s no sense in staying in a relationship where you don’t have a plan on what to do next. It’ll make you think that you two are just playing around.

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  1. Show him/her how your love every single day (If possible). A simple good morning and goodnight will do.

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  1. Go on a date at least once a week.

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  1. Do something or learn something together. Share a hobby with your partner. This will make it easier for the two of you to communicate with each other.

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  1. If you feel that he/she is not the one for you, then make him/her the one for you. Standards doesn’t matter

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