Choose them friends wisely.

Growth is disconnecting yourself from people that are not ready for the next level.
I mean when you realise that you have wasted too much time with people who dont add value to you in terms of finances,advise or any kind of help.all they do is give you acall to find out whether they can come over and not because they miss you but only because they dont have what to do or they are just hungry(food hunger) and they are well aware that you always have food.

Yes,am so sure we all have had such kinds in our lives and for once we thought they were actually being their for us or probably too much love they had for us but nah such kinds are usually bad friends who never want to see us grow and be better than them,they will always want to know wants going on in your life to make sure they claim to know you more,they will demand what they want to eat and tell you how your house is messy or how your children are noisy,they will complain over some things in your house because they got no life of their own.

Be aware of such kinds:they are greedy,destroyers,not well wishes,selfish and they will always claim they have been their for you if they ask you something and you are unable to deliver.
And by the way they will always borrow money from you and never pay back.

If you keep entertaining them,at the end of the day they cause problems in ur career,marriage,bussiness.since all they do is advise you negatively and tell you that you cant achieve further.When your life gets hard they will not stay,neither will they be there for you.
When you are shattered the best thing they will offer is to take you out and advise you to drink your sorrows away because that way they are in control of you and in any case thats the best they can offer..

My friend,run away from such friends when you still can.
As they say" show me your friends and i will tell you who you are".
Let us choose our friends wisely!

Till then...
Mariez