'Identification 1' What to identify with to get our inner settings straight?

wombloom (63)in #tribesteemup • 5 years ago

In a series of 3:

'Identification 1'

What to identify with to get your inner settings straight?

When the settings on your phone are all wrong, it basically messes up everything you try to do with it. And we all know how very frustrating that can be!

What this has got to do with identificating with the things suitable for you and thereby getting your priorities sorted out and your goals more clear, you will find out when you read on!

I believe that one of the main tasks we get to do in life is identifying with LOVE and all things LOVING. LOVING speach, LOVING action, LOVING thoughts, LOVING feelings and... LOVING choices.

We start out identifying with all kinds of things when we are little. Our own roles, the roles our parents, teachers and peers give us. Toys that give us pleasure, hobbies we like or things in school we find interesting. We even identify with the people we like to have around us.
At some point in our lives, that I'd say, everyone gets to sooner or later, we start second guessing what we identify with, usually because we are not feeling happy. And the funny thing we tend to say at such a point is: THIS IS NOT ME.
In other words: I don't identify with this way of thinking or feeling, these type of cloths or people I'm hanging out with. This can come as a shock. And this is meant to wake us up and motivate us to review our choices in life.

That's when the journey begins to finding out: IF THIS IS NOT ME THEN WHAT IS?

Isn't that exicting??? Finding out what you're all about???? Well no, when this journey starts most of us are scared out of our wits and often try to hold on a little longer to our old life choices because we don't know what the **** we are supposed to do next.

What ARE we supposed to do next?

Somewhere inside of each of us there is a point of reference that is based on LOVE. If we go inside and be still long enough we will find it. I assure you it is there. It can not be lost as it is the core of our existence. Oh yes, it can be covered up, but what is covered can be uncovered. And that is something all of us need to do sooner or later if we want to find out who we are and what we want.

That is the first step, daring to look at our lives, in touch with our own POINT OF REFERENCE BASED ON LOVE.
What do we see?
Which things in our life resonate with that LOVE?
And which things don't?
And be watchful, because not all is what it seems. Some things we thought we wanted don't give us what we need at all and other things that we hardly appreciated all of a sudden seem to be the long lost treasure supplying us with all we need to grow in LOVE and we had it all along.
Time to make choices and start identifying with the thoughts, feelings, work and company that resonate with our CORE of LOVE. That's when we find out who we are. That sets our inner settings to serving our EVOLUTION in LOVE. And that, my friends, makes things so much easier! ( You know it's like getting the settings on your phone right for the things you want to do with it ;-))
Because once we get our inner settings straight, not only do our goals become more clear but we start attracting what we want and need to get to those goals because we already identify with them.
And this is not some mystified secret that is only to be understood by very smart people who know how to bend their minds in all kinds of impossible knots, it is actually really simple: Identification with what is LOVING is just another way of resonating with what is LOVING and as we know, what we resonate with is what we attract. So let us CHOOSE to identify with LOVE and make our lives come in alignment with what really fulfils us.