It's my birthday fellow Steemians! 50 years old today. What a life I've had.

tremendospercy (65)in #travel • 7 years ago (edited)

I'll be honest with you, I never thought I'd make it! Just goes to show what great women can do for you.

Growing up where I did people didn't really dwell too much on the future, during that miserable early part of the 1970's most people in my life were struggling to make ends meet. People weren't necessarily unhappy although you could see that they wished life had dealt them a different hand. They couldn't afford luxuries, they accepted it and carried on with their lives. I didn't want that I wanted to take control and enjoy life.

Getting out of Dodge!

I never dreamed back then that I would live the life I have. And I never would have if I hadn't gone backpacking. And I would never have gone backpacking if I hadn't have literally been dragged out of the country by an old girlfriend who I've not seen in 23 years but will be eternally grateful to. I've travelled the world a lot and had large blocks of time, years in fact continuously travelling which is something most people sadly never get to do.
The girl who saved me from the life I didn't want had a different vision of her future than I had for mine so we parted ways after we left Australia in what was the first visit to that great country. I was single, in South-East Asia got money in my pocket. So I went berserk, girls, drink, drugs you name it I had a ball. I remember when Kurt Cobain died in 1994 (he was 2 months older than me) the whole 27 meme was being talked about a lot, Jimi Hendrix, Jim Morrison and a bunch of others hadn't made it past that age and while I had no musical talent at all I was living like someone who didn't care if he saw 28.

It was then that I met the girl who changed everything, the girl who made me want to see 28, 30, 40, 50 and beyond.

I somehow got back to Oz alive and was working selling jewellery when she came to the shop. It sounds like crap but I knew when I saw her, she was the one. We were living together a few weeks later and have never been apart since other than when she returned to the UK for a wedding a year after we met.
Since then we have lived a great life both overseas and in the UK always looking for a new place to visit, new countries and cuisines to immerse ourselves in.
I bumped into an old school friend a few years back I hadn't seen since 1989. We spent about 10 minutes chatting and he left saying "you've changed". I took it as a compliment however I doubt it was said as such.