Thanks for contributing, even though I don't agree. And that's okay. Your post just triggered thinking and conversation. And that's what it's all about :)

And why I don't agree with the way this was written: It creates a false picture of someone in your mind. Men might read this, go out into the world with such expectations and just find disappointment. If she's such a rockstar, why would she hang out with you?

There shouldn't be a rule for a partner. When you meet her, you will feel it. You'll naturally analyze her. Ask questions. And only you will feel if its right or wrong.

In fact, if you want a kickass partner, be as kickass interesting and exciting as you wish him/her to be. Make your life extraordinary and you will find extraordinary partners.

with loVe in thoughts :)