Well done on the brave decision!!! Sometimes I think society gives out a really strong message that if you give up on a plan then you are a failure, but actually people change along the journey and sometimes it's the most unhealthy thing to just persevere doggedly forwards on a path that you know deep down will make you unhappy. I've done both of these in the past, and going forward I'm now a fan of following ones little inner voice and intuition! Good luck!!! best, Kate