The ladies first

Perhaps this sentence is familiar in the ears of the sisters. The sentence used by the men who intended to invite the woman in front of him. To step ahead, get in the car, enter the elevator, even queuing up. The woman who hears it is not uncommon, or can be said to be sure, floated upon hearing this word. "Well, how polite this guy is," "really a gentlemen guy..." Or another unspeakable thought.

The question is which culture is this? It is undeniable that this is a world-wide Western culture along with the development of English into an International language-but it does not mean the hereafter (please note) -. Well, actually the users of this term, or we are bandwagon wear it had never thought about the origin of this term itself. Where do you from? Many terms or customs come from the West, though not all are ugly, but most of them are ugly. Not in accordance with the Eastern culture let alone the teachings of Islam. This is a public secret. Is not it?? Let's look at it like April Fools, Valentine's Day, Mother Day, and so on. Well, to not always blind, let's open my eyes ....

The term Ladies First begins with a story that came from Italy in the 8th century AD.

A rich young man, a descendant of Italian nobility loves poor women who like the general story, will not be sanctioned by the youth's parents.

They also intend to get married. All obstacles were crammed with the man but inevitably their hopes run aground. It is impossible for parents to be challenged. Finally they agreed to commit suicide together. The trick is to plunge from a large rock, beneath which is a gaping ocean ready to swallow.

They stood there. Make a pledge. Ends with the spring's leap of the stone and, of course, instantly lost in the waves and can be ascertained, dead. When looking at this tragic scene, the woman was discouraged suicide. Betraying the slogans of a lifetime together and then returning to his village and marrying a dignified man (low grade).

This event also inspires the villagers to stop trusting women and putting them in business. Fear of this incident will be repeated to them.

From this story then spread the term Ladies First that we already know.

And also just extra, even when there is war, men's Western armies always put women forward. Why? Because if there are traps or bombs being trampled, not those directly affected, but the woman earlier. Because for them women are worth nothing.

Still believe the ladies first better and more gentle and question why in the story of Prophet Moses US, the guy who walk first. Why girls can not walk in front of boys. And so forth.

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