LET US STOP PRETENDING.... (ITIGIL ANG PAGPAPANGGAP)
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Stop trying hard, it's not too late. I have been there, i have done that, and it is really a hard habit to break. Don't be too caught up in the tides of this world, where people want us to conform as much as possible. And there is that lurking possibility that you may lose your identity. The above image is a PARADOX. Look at me trying hard to copy the model's pose, yet it clearly said "LIVE YOUR BEST".
LIVE YOUR BEST? BUT HOW?
The tiny Drake gif nailed it. There is no better answer than that. BE YOURSELF, THAT'S WHY PEOPLE LIKE YOU. Come to think of it, if you are not being yourself, that makes you an actor. Quite impossible to be a full time actor 24/7 right? It takes a toll on yourself, and it feels strange; yet if you will just be yourself, everything is more simple & the feeling is natural.
BE NATURAL.
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Let's face it, humans are afraid of the idea of "being yourself." Why is that so? It's because people are scared to be exposed, to be vulnerable. We want to fit in a niche so that the majority of society will accept us. Your colleague might say to you "Talk about crypto, it's more profitable there." You know yourself that you are least knowledgeable person about crypto, so whip out the reverse Shia LeBouf and "Don't Do it!"
STOP PRETENDING
So what is the point of all this talk? Well for all those who wants to conform & just go with flow, don't lose yourself in the process. Keep your individuality, drop any trace of pretense of your enjoyment, especially if you are not wholehearted in such an undertaking. Again & again for the nth time, be true, be real, be yourself. We cannot please everyone, reality stings like a bee. So whatever connections you have now or in the coming future, cherish it, hold it dearly in your heart, & never ever let it go.
Itigil ang sobrang pagsusumikap, hindi pa huli. Naroon na ako dati, nagawa ko na iyon, at talagang mahirap alisin ang nakasanayan na. Huwag kang mahuli sa agos ng mundong ito, kung saan nais ng mga tao na sumunod kami hangga't maaari. At may posibilidad na maaring mawala ang iyong pagkakakilanlan. Ang imahe sa itaas ay isang PARADOX. Tingnan nyo ako na sinusubukan nang husto na kopyahin ang pose ng modelo, ngunit malinaw na nagsabing "LIVE YOUR BEST".
LIVE YOUR BEST? PERO PAANO?
Ang maliit na Drake gif sakto sa punto. Walang mas mahusay na sagot kaysa sa MAGPAKATOTOO KA, DAHIL DYAN KAYA KA GUSTO NG MGA TAO. Pag ito'y pinagisipan mo, kung ikaw ay hindi magpapakatotoo sa iyong sarili, ibig sabihin isa kang aktor. Medyo imposible na maging isang full time na aktor 24/7 di ba? Ito ay nkakapanghina, at ang pakiramdam nito ay kakaiba; pero pag ikaw ay magpakatotoo lamang sa iyong sarili, ang lahat ay mas simple at ang pakiramdam ay natural.
MAGING NATURAL.
Haharapin natin ito, ang mga tao ay natatakot sa ideya ng "magpakatotoo ka sa iyong sarili." Bakit ganoon? Ito ay dahil ang mga tao ay natatakot na malantad, na makita ang kahinaan. Gusto nating masali sa isang angkop na lugar upang ang karamihan ng lipunan ay matanggap tayo. Ang iyong kasamahan ay maaaring sabihin sa iyo *"Magsulat ka tungkol sa crypto, mas kikita ka doon." * Alam mo ang iyong sarili na ikaw ay hindi gaanong maalam tungkol sa crypto, kaya ipakita mo ang baliktad Shia LeBouf at "Wag mo gawin!"
ITIGIL ANG PAGPAPANGGAP
Ano kaya ang punto ng lahat ng pahayag na ito? Ito ay para sa lahat ng may nais na sumunod lamang at umagos kasama sa daloy, ingatan na huwag mawala sa iyong sarili sa proseso. Panatilihin ang iyong sariling katangian, bitawan ang anumang bakas ng pagkukunwari ng iyong kasiyahan, lalo na kung ikaw ay hindi buong puso sa iyong gagawin. Makailang ulit na pinapaalala na, maging totoo, maging tunay, magpakatotoo ka iyong sairli. Hindi natin kayang mapasaya ang lahat, ang katotohanan ay masakit parang pagtusok ng bubuyog. Kaya anuman ang mga koneksyon na mayroon ka na ngayon o sa darating na hinaharap, bigyan ito ng importansya, panghawakan ito ng my tunay na pagmamahal sa iyong puso, at huwag na huwag mo ito iwanan.
For those who accept who you really are, they are ones for keeps. <3
Keep on Steemin'!
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Great post! Regards 😀
Thank you too Mr. Snow! More power as always! And always be yourself! :D
ayos na blog kabayan
Salamat brad! Magpakatotoo lang! :)
'' You should go and love yourself ''. You have a point sir @yukimaru. Pansin ko din, ang daming nagbloblog about cyptocurrencies.. hehe. Be yourself and everybody will accept you.
Tama ka dyan. Para makasabay sa agos, mag crypto tayo! Mag ppost din ako about crypto, kung pano ako sumablay. Hahaha ;)
Indeed! Be real and be yourself! It does't mean that you won't live here in the real world if you will not become one with the world(it's definitely not right). Real world means real and we need to be real because if we are real to ourselves then we are living and we start living (we will survive). Great post @yukimaru mabuhay!!!! :D
Salamat kabayan! Tama ka dyan, be real, be living, maging totoo sa sarili. Always be happy too! :)
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see beshy.masarap magsulat ng article lalo na kong yong isususlat mo ay gustong gusto mo..congrats ganda ni gf :)
dapat talaga gusto mo yung sinusulat mo pra mas maipahayag mo pa ng mabuti ung damdamin mo :)
Thanks bes!! Mas blessed ako dahil sa kanya. ;)
Naks naman yan ang tunay na lalaki..
Salamats bessy! Dapat laging magpakatotoo! :)
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You are so right! (Wish it was easier - I was educated to NOT be myself!)
Hahah! You can always start now. Just find your center, do things you love and do things that come out naturally within you. :)
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You are finding yourself
Yes bro. Find yourself, love yourself, be at peace. When people see the real you, they will adore you. :)