Decanted Attitude

in #tilphilippines6 years ago

I've come across this wonderful(?) thought that every attitude deserves to rethink its actions because there are always a stumbling block between you and the world. And that is how attitude, no matter how good or bad affects you and your family, neighborhood or even your friends! You can't help it the way  it is in you.  You can't afford to reset your attitude once you were born, but you can control or make it  finesse move , sadly it will come out later in our life. That's how attitude works, it is an ever growing accumulation of everything we've filters in our brain.  

Accumulated Attitude
Or maybe it all depends on who you are with. I've witnessed a person whose attitude can influence even his friends or acquaintances. Of course not all attitude is bad or good. It depends how bad attitude had an impact on you or how good attitude influences you when a person hits his attitude towards you or another person. It takes time, an attitude whether bad or good to manifest, but when it does you could sense if there's trouble or not. Of course we know how attitude works, however, this trait is not as bad as what we think. Attitude is like a reflection of what's on his mind or defense mechanism in progress of what was thought about, attitude may think or not, thus, whatever in the person's mind it reflects its condition in an instant or leave it be like there was nothing happened!

Take a look at the kids, they have their own attitude when they are together, playing, running or whatever they are doing. A lot of times they into attitude thing. The good thing about the kids is they tend to forget what the heck happened and again enjoying what hey have started and live free, but with the adult's attitude is like a big ego thing you can't trust your feeling with it!

A Person With An Attitude A Complex One?
Our mental state or whatever it is involves a lot things to consider not just the feelings, but how a simple and avoidable circumstances turn into a complex one. I once witness an old man whose attitude towards his ex-wife is so intense that even seeing her shadow is a contempt for him! And there's this middle age man whose mouth is as dirty as the Canal of Sampaloc, Manila! He is an impatient man as if he really likes trouble when he open his mouth! His attitude has become a complex one, no one bothers him to stop talking when he snapped! Even a smallest details shouldn't be known to him or else well flare up! I think this man has an attitude and anger problem. The way I see it, he should seek a professional help. He's cocky and so proud about all of his achievements, he even brags about his being a self made man (if that is appropriate to call him).

Attitude shouldn't be as complex as ever, but when two different sets of attitude with different culture, background, beliefs collided it will be hard to straighten up! Attitude starts when you think radically, emotionally, or even violently. So how attitude is so complex that altering it is impossible, but changing of mind is possible if the person is willing to make a difference. That attitude is his tool to being a better person I hope and let everyone not to a complex world but rather a peaceful and wonderful life!


Sampaloc, Manila
January 17. 2018

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Amazing post

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Nice article...totally stunned by your work...keep going ..I wish you to make nice posts like this

sometimes people are just too complex and they do not want to take credit (if you can call it that) of the wrong they have done and blame on others. They just want to be always in the "right"

galing talaga sir.

You cannot please everyone, so they say! but sometimes we have to accept our faults though it hurts but that's how a good Christian should be! be sensitive on other peoples' feelings.

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ang ganda sir and ang galing nyo lang po talaga :-) thank you for this post & God bless po :-)

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