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RE: A couple with colleagues

in #thoughts5 years ago

Agreed @tarazkp ...

"In many ways, the internet dehumanizes us and many people forget that there is an actual person tapping away at a computer somewhere ..."

... it is dehumanizing and in ways beyond the thoughts you have to share with us here. Never online before Steem, it seems to me there is just something missing. A "virtual" person can really be whoever they choose to represent themselves to be. Is this virtual persona the "real" person or who they want to portray themselves as being?

Certainly this happens in "real life," but it is considerably harder to pull off face-to-face. As I have said more than once in here, Facetime is more than an app to me. That said, it is undeniable there is an attraction to interacting with others all over the world, when there is very little likelihood of ever meeting in person.

The other issue I don't care for is the aggressive behaviors which again are fairly easy to pull off if you are hiding behind a computer screen. Do some exhibit these types of behavior in "real life?" Yes, of course, but I believe it is much less common to be so antisocial face-to-face.

As for vlogging, like you, I am not comfortable with it. That said, if you had your wife video tape your interaction with @smallsteps, that would likely go a long way to it feeling more natural for you.

Get a good night's rest and we'll "see" you in the morning!

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The other issue I don't care for is the aggressive behaviors which again are fairly easy to pull off if you are hiding behind a computer screen. Do some exhibit these types of behavior in "real life?" Yes, of course, but I believe it is much less common to be so antisocial face-to-face.

I would predict that the most aggressive online personas are among the weakest off. They want to exert their power because they do not have it in the real world. It is mostly attention seeking behaviour looking for validation from others.

It is a good idea to get the wife to film. In the next month she should finish her studies and then we all have a little more time together.

We agree on this @tarazkp ...

"... the most aggressive online personas are among the weakest off. They want to exert their power because they do not have it in the real world."

... as there are old sayings about bullies typically being cowards at heart, if they are stood up to. Not always the case, but often ...

"In here," though, I have experienced the Steem version. The worst are those hiding behind a large stake of VP, for which the rest of us have no effective remedy ...

Hopefully, I'll be around for the vlog experiment @tarazkp. A clip showing you and your little one will be a hit I predict!

Off into my day. We have our little grandson and granddaughter here with us this weekend. No vlog of it coming though ... 😉

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Off into my day. We have our little grandson and granddaughter here with us this weekend. No vlog of it coming though ..

Enjoy the day and talk soon :)

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