Thoughts on when is the moment...

raserrano (63)in #thoughts • 6 years ago

There is always a moment for specific things in live, there is always a right way to do things and there is also a known way to do things, but it does not mean it has to be your way of doing things, your moment or right way for you.

Decisions and make a decision

There is a right moment for doing so but many times we are forced to make a decision right away and it might be right in the short run but not really great in the long run. Once you have made it there is o way back.

Wrong, you can always find new ways, paths or options

Most of the time people tend to think that once a decision has been made there is no going back or changing and that is absolutely wrong. There are different thoughts and ideas on this but you might end up discussing the same old topics like who was first the chicken or the chick, we need to be open for different and strange paths that will take us to places we have never experienced or visited and that is totally fine.
I'm bringing this thoughts to you because I feel like once we start to get older we stop being that flexible an in fact we are the ones now judging the recent graduates kids choosing a career at university or college and then switching to another or maybe is the desired they have to fine something that fits them better and that is the reason they change job every 6 months and that is not easy to understand from our side, but remember you were once the one causing this kind of doubts, judgments and scaring your parents, friends and loved ones.

You can always start again

No one can really say that has had everything on the first try and that is ok, you can always fail and do it again. Maybe you started to study something and once you had a clear idea of what you might be doing for the rest of your life you did not like it and that is why you wanted to start something else.

And who said: doing for the rest of your life

We tend to fall into this society trap so easily of what is right and correct and what you should do or be doing. I mean you should study/improve and seek to get better conditions to sustain your life and lifestyle but that does not necessarily means that you should be a doctor ( as assuming in your country that is a high paying job) or a lawyer(assuming high paying job as well), most families and relatives will say that is a right choice and good bet or blah blah blah, but it does not really matter what you chose and what you do for living, the important thing here is not fall in the job/status trap and just live simply and try to be as happy as you can.

I have fall into that trap myself

I wanted to have a baby so bad and for some reason I started to think that my time was gone or that It was going to be too late, but now that we are waiting for her, Sofia, I can just think how wrong I was. That is not just it, It has happened to me and I guess to you as well, when you have seen young couple with kids, you start judging, or maybe someone who does not own a house decided to buy a expensive first car right from the dealer shop, it is a normal feeling and I'm not saying that it is right. Problem is that we tend to judge others same way that we were judged hence my feeling that it was going to be late for my baby, but who really says its getting too late. I'm sure there is always a better movie to compare to what you have experience and you think that the movie presented in front of you is better or perfect, but let me tell you this, we will never be satisfied and happy with what we have if we do not accept or reality first. Accept your reality and love it, embraced it and fully enjoy living it as that is what life is for, experiencing different moments and enjoy them.

If you are not happy ...

I believe no one is really happy as that, you have to convince yourself that you are happy, fulfilled and work towards that feeling everyday. It is ok to fall and not feel happy, lucky or grateful for what you have and that is precisely the moment when you start to compare with other's lifestyle and accomplishments, but stop that feeling, get back you your reality and work your way to happiness from where you are standing. It can mean studying something else at university/college or getting a new job. It is fine to not finish studying something because you do not like it, it is fine to drop a high paying job because you were not happy, but anything you choose make sure you are doing it for yourself and your happiness. Happiness can also mean making others happy and I guess that is where most decisions made by parents make sense years after and when you are living that.

My final thought

Live simple and happy, do your best to work towards achieving both, living and happiness and you will be living a fulfilled life every day of your life without worrying too much what others have to say or think about you and your decisions made, it is your life and you live it the way you want but always aiming on happiness. Balance is key as well because you can have a good job, a good family and still not live a balanced life so keep that in mind, too much of something is not good for you and usually less or least possible will work pretty good as well.


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