I agree @dlfo! I've come to that point in my life as well. I think the conflict is draining. I have no issues with confronting people, but if I witness the conversation degrading rather than improving, I must recognize that I am no longer serving as the individual may not necessarily be ready to hear what I have to say.

However, to help, serve and support others who have the will to change and grow, suddenly becomes enriching and rewarding. I think we owe it to ourselves and each other to do the work and help one another along that journey.