What is Reality?

We define this obscure thing called reality as; the world or (the state of things) as they actually exist. But to exist; we need to have an objective reality or being. Life as we know it exists, but the circumstances that brought us into existence are beyond our control. We cannot pick our parents from when we were first conceived so we have no idea of what will be our fate of reality. Not having control of ones very own existence doesn't make our lives have an objective reality, This supports the fact that we as individuals can create our very own reality and this opens up doors to multiple different realities which makes me think about the multi-verse theory. The dominator type culture tries its best to make everyone abide to one view on what reality is, they make us believe that this is the way life is, life sucks and is unfair. In actuality you are the one responsible for causing all the pain and suffering to yourself. By listening to the dominators, they will limit your beliefs and spiritually contain you from believing anything you think might be possible= impossible. We are regulated and governed with laws and certain rules to follow, we are shown what society thinks is and isn't acceptable. But having to be governed is also a needed thing because we need to have a set society mindset to protect the people and the communities. Which also makes me believe that everyone needs someone to look up to that is in control of everything or else society as a whole would be kind of chaotic. So without having an objective reality how do we exist in reality? Are we just living in the matrix of time living out a human experience as a game to only find out that the name of the game is to not find out that we are our very own creators of reality/ thank you for your time, dont forget to follow and check out my other blogs as well comment down below on what reality means to you. peace and love people!