RESPONSIBILITY
"We are not only responsible for what we do, but also what we do not do." Moliere said . It is easy to define accountability, but the process of accountability is much more difficult. Most people blame others for taking responsibility for their contributions to their problems.
It is easy for children to say "he started it first", "it was his fault". This pattern does not change much over the years. This time, the '' test was not fair '', '' my wife was a different person '' or the main problem is spoken in the form of my boss, my father, my neighbors, the government, the test system, my children.
Responsibility is one of the most important elements of character; it is imperative that the person fulfills his obligations to himself and others in a timely manner. A person who takes responsibility must fulfill his / her duties and functions on time, in the desired manner and in the desired manner.
Being responsible is the life of one's own existence, the control of one's own life, one of the most important requirements of earning respect, trust and affection of other people. Approaching the difficulties of life with responsibility consciousness gives the ability to change personal events. The irresponsible person is the one who is constantly motivated by others, the one who does not write his own destiny, the one who has lost his car.
Irresponsible people constantly wander among the words, blame others and the conditions they are in, they do not like themselves, they produce very little work, they prevent the walk of the work, they see people who are in need and need help. So these people are very slow to move but they are very quick to complain.
Responsible person is the person who takes the initiative in order to be able to do the work that needs to be done in a timely manner, the one who can make it by itself, the one who writes with his own choices, the control of the car. In other words, even if the person does not have to give account to anyone, he is obliged to account for his own conscience.
Because life consists only of elections, these elections are held in every second, but perhaps the most important one is the selection of " what kind of life do we want to live?" question. There may always be coincidences that take someone out of the way, and in this case one should ignore the obligation to bind his arm and be condemned to passivity. Whether consciously or unconsciously and automatically, all the choices are the fate of the person.
Every choice is a give up. Every choice is meant something to be rejected by us with or without awareness. Every step taken means, either rejecting the other step and perhaps the opportunity to be thrown at a critical decision stage or in an ordinary day without being thrown in the routine atmosphere, but if desired. Many choices have advantages and disadvantages.
In this angle, every election is lost, but knowing what you lose, it is your responsibility to eliminate that option, even if you lose it. The person who makes the election conscious knows the renouncements and the costs, does not suffer the consequences, does not feel anger, does not feel the feeling that I live the life of someone else.Let me tell you a story about it: Tony went away to see a Wise once. When Wise saw Tony he asked him, "what do you want to drink?".
Tony answered "No problem for me at all, i can drink what you have". "Tea or coffee? The Wise repeated the offer. Tony replied "everything you can bring is all right for me". So then the Wise decided to prepare a drink to teach Tony about a lesson and took the thyme and anise from the herbal teas in his hand and started boiling. When the tea was ready, it was served to Tony by mixing the two.
Ahmet, who saw the strange glass with yellowish color, asked "what is the tea in this glass"? The Wise replied "so there is no differences for you." Then Tony tried to drink this bad looking tea but when he tasted it he asked "what is that damn tea?". With a smile on his face of the Wise replied "I call it the tea that does not make any sense".
The main topic of the story is that: a person has the chance to choose many times in his life and if one spends his chances inconsistently he does not know the value of his life and can not write his own destiny. In fact, a person can move unconsciously to the point where he or she does not notice everything and everything.
In this case, the person will have to accept the option given to her by her choice because she makes no choice. Because the person does not use his right to choose, he has made a choice, handed over the responsibility of his life to others, instead of searching for the crime himself, he starts to blame everybody and condemns himself to unhappiness.
If one wants to make changes that are noticed in his / her life, he must realize the difference and make the right choices, take responsibility and go to the helm of the life ship. Because the person makes a butterfly effect with the choices he makes every second. A person who makes his choices hilariously or unconsciously lives without knowing how his decisions affect him.
The brain of the person is so full of prejudice and definitions of life that even his/her wishes and deepest desires are often confused with the rules, traditions, practices and things that have been taught to him/her. She/He kills her/his own self and tries to live in a way that the society will see him/her. Taking responsibility is like paying for your meal.
Because things do not happen to anyone, bad things do not always find the person, but the choices that lead to bad things are made by the person himself. It is even possible to choose not to make a choice, to wait, to let events flow, to choose not to make a choice. As a result, without accepting responsibility, the person can not improve himself or herself, can not make himself well, and can not live his own existence.
There is control over your life in the degree of responsibility that the person accepts. Gassion has been summarized very nicely; Live a life that is very difficult and responsible for a lifetime. If there is no such responsibility and obligation on your shoulder, then life will become an overwhelming burden.
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A hero is someone who understands the responsibility that comes with his freedom. Really nice to read your article. Thanks.
I like this one part, so start from now I must be learn to be good responsibility with my self, with what I do and also I must be open my heart to feel what other feeling if I make them broken.
Thankyou brother @mnallica
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A great take on responsibility! It was a wonderful read. Thank you for sharing it with the community. 💚
Thank you for your post @mnallica, because not taking responsibility is a big risk.
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