Marriage 101

Many get married believing in a myth
They believe marriage is a beautiful box full of all things they longed for.
They believe this box is full of companionship ,sexual fulfillment,intimacy and friendship.
The reality however is that marriage at the start is an empty box .
You must put something in it before you can take something out .
THERE IS NO LOVE IN MARRIAGE.
LOVE IS IN PEOPLE WHO MUST ENSURE THEY PUT IT IN MARRIAGE !
there's no automatic romance in marriage, people infuse it in their marriages.
A couple must learn this art.
Form a habit of giving, loving, forgiving, forbearing.
Marriage is built on habits not reactions or momentary things,
Habits of service, and honoring each other
As a couple, it's up to you to keep your box full.
Either with love, selflessness, faith, hope and mutual respect
Or suspicion, selfishness, ego, mistrust and disrespect
Your box is up to you.
I call you blessed
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