These are so super hard. I feel like it could either be 3, 5, or 12. I can't remember if you've told me you've been all over much or not darnit. The anger one is tough as I know you aren't like that..but maybe at the time it happened. Darnit this is hard. Okay, if I HAVE to guess - I will go with 5. By the ways 11 so sounds like you and I really really hope that is true because that is such an amazing story.