Because of female nature, it is now 5 girls per guy, who is hot

You are clearly projecting your own metrics on to all women. "Being hot" is the number one thing many men focus on. Women have much more diverse standards. I can't help but feel you are pulling these statistics right out of thin air.

OMG, Alpha-male took my women!

The patriarchy trains men (from birth) to be incompetent douche-bags when it comes to romance, relationships, and emotions. It's like it creates this polarizing effect where you're either afraid of women or you hunt/exploit them. Drop your sense of entitlement. Women don't owe you anything.

A feminist is someone who believes that women are not second-class citizens. Your warped view of feminists being angry prude cock-blockers is part of the problem. Everyone should be a feminist. EVERYONE.