@bensimblog You may be right! I believe I left out a crucial part of the story, I initially got pissed at the comment (hence the post hahaha) because I saw that it was given by the same person that A2A the original question to me.

I'm not saying the way the person think is objectively wrong. Kudos if a person is completely comfortable with their current state of life, that's what the Buddhist creed aim to strive for. i kinda envy them tbh. But yes, good things in life takes time and effort as you said.

Now if only i can out my whole mindset and talk into real results!! hahahaha!