RE: Let's Talk #2 : The Choky/Clingy Partner- Yay or nay?p
You've said it all @gloglo what do you want us to say again?😁😁
On a serious note, a clingy partner is the same thing as a possessive partner. A possessive partner is controlling, authoritative, jealous and can even harm you but that's the extreme.
Now some people are clingy not because they want to be but they have suffered so much heartbreak in their past relationships and somehow they tend to believe it was because they didn't place a monitoring camera over him or her that's why she/he was cheated on and now ain't ready to let that happen again whereas some people are naturally clingy perhaps their upbringing.
A clingy partner in the beginning is all fun until it starts feeling like you are placed in a box with no air and you are suddenly choking. It strains the relationship. The questions keeps coming. What are you? Who are you with? Where are you going to? Naturally, the other partner feels caged and is no longer free to express him or herself because they don't know what they will say that my be used against them in the court of law then the lies sets in just for peace to reign. The calls gets ignored and this increases the problem then they start avoiding each other and then then the relationship crumbles.
No matter what your intentions is, we all love a little space. Distance they say makes the heart grows fonder and over familiarity breeds contempt. Every guy deserves a time out to hangout with the guys and have fun. he is not your husband. Every lady deserves a time out to have fun with her girlfriends, she is not your wife. A woman or man that will stick with you will, you don't have to place a monitoring on them.
It's like I've said so much. So long dear. Ciao can come
Wow,nice one ooo,bob-elr pls come and read this
I also think you should read up again my dear 'cos you are still saying amen to the same prayer.
Clap Clap Clap @zizymena,
This is cool. But i'm still concerned the wrong meaning given to my friend @clingy.
Everyone is tagging him bad for the offence he hasn't committed and he's about be punished unjustly.
Let's look out for @obsession and tag her for this deed. She should pay for her sin not Clingy again.
A clingy partner is an obsessive partner. They have same attributes just that an obsessive partner can actually go to the extreme of killing just to have you to themselves
No darling, a clingy partner isn't obsessed. See below the meaning of clingy.
Holding to something or someone very tightly
To stay very close to someone for emotional support, protection and so on,
To stick to something or someone.
So how does this becomes obsession?
While I read your comment my large eyes were just fixed hoping you wouldn't stop. I love where you said:
It happens that tgere are some partner who intentionally hold you on everyword and twust them that theysound like a lie. Funny how stuffs can blow in a drastic situation.
So far so good on here I don't see anything cool with being clingy. Thank you very much gurl. Intelligent comment you gave us here. Hope to see you come back with more of those.
Thank you so much. I'm glad you enjoyed reading my input
TRUST!