I mean, monitoring every call, who called and for how many minutes, and knowing who called and for what reason and all of that.

I am someone that is finding it difficult to call these days. I have not been a fan of calls, but recently its getting worse. I prefer to receive text or chats than call. Now having such partner that gives me a clingy or choky posture, i call such guming. I will run for my life. It is good when you both have something to do differently and still something to do together. It helps and bring respect than doing the clingy thing. Thank you @gloglo.