Adversity; Ships don’t sink because of the water around them.

in #sttp6 years ago

Adversity...

“Ships don’t sink because of the water around them. Ships sink because of the water that gets in them"
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No matter who you are or where you came from, we all have to overcome adversity. Success is not determined by how skilled you are in avoiding challenges but how you let it mold you once face them. Will you let adversity break your will or use it to strengthen your confidence and skills?

Let Me Tell You A Story.

Kris' Story:

Kris Carr, a 32-year old New Yorker was having a normal day. During a regular checkup at her doctor’s office, she was diagnosed with a rare and incurable Stage IV Cancer called epithelioid hemangioendothelioma.

She could have succumbed to the disease and no one would have judged given her diagnosis. Instead, she decided to fight with all her will. She attacked her cancer with a brand new nutritional lifestyle and turned her experience into a series of successful self-help books and documentaries.

This led Kris to launch her own wellness website and is now revered as one of the most prominent experts on healthy living.

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Let Me Put You through Another Story

One Butterfly's Story:

One day a small gap appeared in the cocoon, through which the butterfly had to appear. A boy, who accidentally passed by, stopped and watched how the butterfly was trying to get out of the cocoon. It took a lot of time, the butterfly was trying very hard, and the gap was as little as before. It seemed that the power would leave the butterfly soon.
The boy decided to help the butterfly. He took a penknife and cut the cocoon. The butterfly immediately got out, but its body was weak and feeble, and the wings were barely moving.
The boy continued to watch the butterfly, thinking that now its wings would spread and its would fly. However, that did not happen.
The rest of its life the butterfly had to drag its weak body and wings that weren’t spread. It was unable to fly, because the boy did not realize that an effort to enter through the narrow gap of the cocoon was necessary for the butterfly, so that the life-giving fluid would move from the body to the butterfly’s wings and that the butterfly could fly. Life forced the butterfly to leave its shell hardly, so that it would become stronger and would be able to grow and develop.
If we were allowed to live without meeting difficulties, we would not be viable. Life gives us challenges to make us stronger.
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Next time you are faced with a challenge, will you let the water sink your ship? Or will you let the water carry you to new destinations?

Our lives can get pretty hectic and it can be easy to get lost in our actions. When we are so focused on what is ahead, we forget to pause, reflect and find ways to energize our minds.

@bollutech❤️

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The universe seems to be designed such that for anything to move, there must be an opposing force.

We cannot crawl, walk or run unless we have the ground to push against us. A plane cannot fly without the wind pushing against its wings. The tides cannot come and go without the Moon and it's gravity to push and pull them.

Therefore, we should expect, and even welcome adversity in our lives. For it is the only way we can have movement in our lives.

If we cannot crawl to make this life what we ever want, our desire to make it the best of what we want should come to mind, therefore. Lets makes it a beautiful event for us.

This was uplifting @bollutech, and lately, these are the kinds of tales that I need to hear. I really enjoyed the butterfly one, and I've never heard this story before!!!

I've been sad at my world recently, but I realize that these struggles are necessary for my life's journey. I could be cut out of my own cocoon, but I want to break free myself, and take all of the wonderful lessons I learn with me.

I'm happy that I was able to find it in myself to continue on Steemit, and to be myself. You really helped with this as well. Even so, I need to gain courage and strength to continue striving forward.

I'm resteeming the hella awesome story! <3

With love,
@shello

You should never allow the taunt or what life throw to you.
You are the best version of yourself, if you cant be able to move your life on this stage because someone left you, who will help you when there is no one to help?

Always be you
love xx
@bollutech

"If you cant be able to move your life on this stage because someone left you, who will help you when there is no one to help?"

These are wise words I appreciate @bollutech! I am a big girl, and I can take care of myself as well c:

Stay Blessed!
With love,
Your homie @shello

Smile, I'm a big boy too ... Lol

xoxo
@bollutech

You got a big smile from me indeed! C:

very nice sala botul kothakar

Every diamond that shine with that glittery look that makes it beautiful went through a process that was never favourable.

Adversity is that process that prepares one for the glorious days ahead.

Thanks for sharing this master piece.

I am me @brightfame

wow. so hard of life.

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