Please stay away from those who don’t know how to be grateful

The friend's cousin is doing Taobao, selling women's clothing.
Once, a friend forwarded a link to his cousin Taobao shop discount activity. He was seen by a female colleague. He found a friend and said that he had seen a few sets of clothes on the link sent by a friend. He liked it very much. He wanted to let the friend talk about it. Offer some.
The friend said the request of the female colleague and the cousin. He suggested that the friend conveyed that the quality and quality of the treated clothes are not very good. If necessary, there are new women's clothing in the store, which can be considered.
The friend conveyed the opinion of the cousin, the female colleague would like these few discounted clothes, regardless of the new women's clothing. In this way, because it is an acquaintance, a friend asked his cousin to make a 10% discount on the original discount.
After a few days after the clothes arrived, the female colleague angered to find a friend and directly dropped the clothes on the friend's desk, saying that the quality was so bad, the color difference was so large, and a refund was required.
The friend looked awkward and apologized while comforting her. I thought that my cousin had a good intention before, and my friend was embarrassed to say that my cousin said that she would give her the money to buy clothes.
Afterwards, my friend and I said this, saying that although the whole thing is not big, it always feels awkward. I said that I will stay away from this female colleague in the future. My friend said that she has blocked her friend’s rights.
If the online shopping is normal, the participating activities find that the quality of the goods is not good, and the owner is required to refund the money. This is reasonable. In this case, the friend acted as a helper and helped her cut the price. If you find that the quality of the clothes is not refundable, at least thank you to the friends. From the beginning to the end, you have not heard the female colleague express a gratitude, even if a grateful look is not.
When I remembered going to college, I once came back from Xiao Zhao with me. When I walked to the dormitory, Xiao Zhao received a phone call from the dormitory and asked for a box lunch. At the food court street outside the school, we are already walking down the dormitory floor.
Xiao Zhao hangs up the phone, let me go back first, and I turn back and go to the school to help Xiao Zhang buy a box lunch. I first went back to the dormitory. After ten minutes, Xiao Zhao came back and handed the box lunch to Xiao Zhang.
When Xiao Zhang opened the lunch, he complained: "What kind of food is this? I don't like it. You can eat this lunch. I can't eat it." After that, handed the box lunch to Xiao Zhao, and then directly opened the door, completely ignoring the local Xiao Zhao.
It is after this incident that we are far from Xiao Zhang, until graduation, he was depressed for a long time, saying that he did not have a close friend in the university, even the dormitory people deliberately alienated him.
I am thinking, a person who does not know how to be grateful, with friends?
There are so many people in life, Zhangkou asks you to help. If the result of your work happens to be what he expected, he will take it for granted. So unfortunately, the result of what you did was not what he expected. He immediately complained and turned his face and did not recognize people.
The British writer William Mekebis Saclay said: "If a person is greatly blessed and later has a bad purpose with the benefactor, he must take care of his own decent and must be more vicious than an unrelated stranger. He wants to prove each other. Sin can explain his ruthlessness. "A person who never knows what to grate for, what he is in his heart is all his own little profit, but also a selfish person.
We all need friends, go out and engrave our own life, but never be alone, because friends are everywhere. Be a person in advance, be a man in your heart, and have a heart that is always grateful. Friends help you, it is a great kind of love, to remember in the heart, no friends have business to help you.
Those who accept the help of others but do not understand the gratefulness are far away from each other. Such people only see themselves in their eyes, do not know how to cherish their friends, let the road of friendship go narrower and narrower, and finally leave oneself alone. It is feeling that life is so lonely, why no friends are accompanied.
I hope that we can be a person with a wide heart and be a person who knows how to be grateful.