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No matter how I put my choice of words, many will still make their worst mistakes and learn their lesson for your happiness is not mine.

Married just a day. Marriage for life.

My choice of words are selected and are few.
Don't get married because of these:

don't marry because of power.

Life isn't fair they say, like wise our choice ,our every day choice we made, which is killing us slowly. People get involved into some thing just to satisfy their audience watching, oh I forgot to tell you , life is like a movie. That power you seek sacrificing your entire life and joy will surely ruin you no matter how hard you try to bring peace once more in to your family. You shouldn't feel protected by a man for when hard decision are to be made definitely you will be an option, for no man will sacrifice him self over his beloved wife knowing fully well that she will be with another man when he is gone.

don't get married because of money.

Many has entered into marriage because of money. So you won't be the first, but always have in mind that you don't reap where you do not sow. You will be remembered as the mother of your children ,not a woman filled with generousity ,industrious, ambitious , integrity and dignity, for how you wants to define who you are in the eyes of your audience started when you made a decision to be miss independent or miss dependent, you must choice side.

eventually what brought two people into marriage can separate them as well.

That mistake of not finding the right moment should cease.
Had I known should end now.

Truly your mistake might be some one perfect moment, but don't mistake your self as them.

don't get married because you think that your time has past.

Is no doubt many ladies has wasted their time in the game of love. Thinking that they are playing wiser. Before they realize game over, Man is married to another woman. Some has actually wasted theirs in double dating ,in fact as so many their hands can lay on. Who do you want to find love with? Some how ever has decided not to get married again ,obviously they didn't find their test. Rather give birth to bastards. Those times you wasted rejecting your chances obviously might or wouldn't be given back to you. Wait for your time for every one is on their time . If you have in any way lay down your self over aforementioned At this moment I must tell you to be truthful to your self and your partner and await the mercy of the Lord ,for every man had their chance as well.

don't get married because your friends got married.

The common problem why majority of our youth got married is because of the pressure they put on them self when they heard that their best friend or friends has gotten married or engaged. After expressing that moment of happiness with them , they enter into zone of thinking, putting pressure on their fiance to do same. When the young man couldn't they find the closet door and exist and then find their self on the bed of another man (mostly be a married man).

better not to use had I know on your worst moment in marriage.

don't get in to married because of your family.

Many has pointed accusing finger on their family for ruining their happiness by forbidden their choice of happiness and gave them out as act of breaking their poor living in exchange of the family well being. You don't need to push your self too hard because of your family conditions. You didn't force any body to gave birth to you, so don't let any one to force you as well because they won't be the one facing the out come, neither will they take away the pains if case might be that you find your self in the worst moment.

if you find the content please, try to avoid tarnishing your every day life with marriage that you are not prepared for, if you are not yet married.

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