So much to learn from this post i must say. So much lessons we can all pick up here.

We should learn to be tender and be of help. We should learn to be sympathetic. The point is, some people will rather make things words by their words not minding what the person is going through. We might be seated to a completely broken person and still wouldn't know it, more reason we need to be tender, as we don't know what that person is going through or just went through.

We should always seek for help. Like you said sir, nobody has it all together. We grow in life as we go. No man is an island of knowledge. Nobody has the monopoly of knowledge either. We are to be kind and tender, and also seek for help. There is no shame in that.

Kind words do help. I learned of a man who dressed so well, and was heading to commit suicide. He met someone on the way who complimented how good he looked. This man turned back, and wrote in the diary: "Today is a good day. I met someone who gave me another reason to live".

Harsh words break no bones but it can break hearts. A thousand heart with no bone, is no life. So with our words, we should ask ourselves, how many people we have killed.

Thank you so much for your post sir. I always have things to learn from you. I am always excited to read your posts.

I am really sorry about the death of the man. It's always painful when men of real talent dies. The world needs them more than earth does. Sleep after toil, ease after war, port after stormy sea, life after death, does greatly please.