Difficult choice...

in #story8 years ago

I am 22 years old. I have been meeting with a young man for more than a year, but during that short time, we experienced a lot - we lived in different cities for almost half a year, lived together, traveled a lot. And all of us, in principle, well, we cherish each other and support always. But there is a problem, we are from different cities. I'm from Belgorod, he's from a village near Tula. I came to my hometown for study and now, under contract, I have to return to my village, I can not quit, otherwise I will have to pay a huge fine, to transfer now, too, unfortunately, will not work. This is the specificity of work in the bodies of the Ministry of Internal Affairs. After consulting in Belgorod, when they lived together, they decided that I was moving to his village. I am transferred to a free visit at the university (I have a year left), I resign from my favorite work (to which I tried to get a job for half a year), I throw my favorite friends and parents and leave for him. Having moved to the village, I was not particularly dumbfounded (in this village I had already stayed), and I knew perfectly well what it meant to live here, at first did not regret anything and just rested, while I did not get a job anywhere. But after a while, she began to yearn for the city's charms (shops, movies, people who are all the same to each other), girlfriends (there is nobody to talk to, even all young people have long since flunked to Tula), parents, of course, well study began to bother me (and I will pull). By the way, we moved here to the house of my young man's parents. The house is far from being small, besides, my parents divorced, and only his father remained here, but nevertheless I crossed my principle of "never living with my parents." So, it's time to get a job, except in a local school, there's nowhere to work, and there are only two vacancies in school-an accountant and a primary school teacher. I have been studying for 6 years as an advertiser. Naturally, in that, and in another, I'm a complete layman. I immediately refused the position of the teacher because I moved here in the hope that we are here only for a year, but what kind of teacher is this? First, she did not finish her studies herself, and secondly, even a class from grades 1 to 4 did not finish and dropped. And I went to study in accounting. I immediately realized that this is absolutely not mine, it's very hard, you have a big responsibility and you need extreme attention and stress-resistance. In addition, the headmaster is the father of my young man and to say the least, he is tough. He constantly screams, he does not understand, he is always unhappy with something. And if other workers rest from him at least at home, then we talk about work at home (often on elevated tones). he does not understand how hard it is to learn accounting for a month, in his opinion, any technics can cope with this. Vobshchem there was such situation, that while I is not framed I can "escape" from here. And already a couple of times there were impulses, only the beloved held back. Now I'm completely confused and do not know what to do. Leave here my young man, go home, finish my studies, get a job in my specialty. Or stay here and not looking at all the unpleasant moments to be with him. I'm ready to go for it, but I live with the feeling that I made the wrong choice. I offered him a relationship at a distance, provided that in a year he moved to any major city and I will go after him. He naturally does not want to let me go anywhere. In addition, it is not a fact that one year later it will be possible to transfer. Advise me how to be, I know that the decision should only be made by me, but any opinion will be very valuable to me. Thank you!

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