He just looked at me and said, shame, I wish she gets better quickly.

That's beautiful. A year or two ago I went through a transition in my reaction to errant motorists. Years ago I made the decision never to "give the bird" (middle finger); instead, I give a thumb's up.

More recently, I decided not to swear at them (in my closed car; they can't hear me) -- now, I say "I hope he gets home safely."

Completely changes my reaction.