Ary knew this would happen heading in, so it's easy to say "I told you so." But, the better thing to say is "at least you tried." It's not bad to have hope, and while she seemingly failed this time around, she's miles ahead of everyone else whou didn't take a chance. With love come loss, it's just the deal. So, while I'm sure that this is just a speed bump, I do hope that Ary learns from the experience and become better as a person.