Memory Journal (1) - Attention
Incase you missed it, the Steemit Blockchain Memory Project was launched last week and am excited about the comments and posts that are being generated.
A huge THANK YOU to all who have participated thus far!
Our individual human perception, the lens which filters our interpretation of events before they’re solidified as memories, is vastly subjective. This why I believe that sharing our memories with others and others deeply contemplating them is so valuable. Hearing and trying to understand another person’s experience and point of view can afford us the opportunity to reach a deeper and richer understanding of our place in the world. In some circumstances it can bring us closer to the truth than we were before.
Life for me began at 5:22am on June 18, 1971 at Doctor’s North hospital in Columbus, Ohio. I’m lucky enough to have a continuous string of fairly vivid memories of childhood and some fractured ones stretching back as young as two years old. I was lucky to have been born into an intact lower middle class family. My father was a welder by trade, my mom stayed home to raise my brother and I.
Before my brother was born, when I was three and a half years old, my mother would read to me in the afternoons. I can remember looking forward to that quiet time, she was animated and her voice carried an abundance of inflection as she read. Danny and the Dinosaur and anything by Dr. Suess were always my favorites. I also remember the precise moment I learned to read at age four, I opened up If I Ran the Circus by Dr. Suess, just “got it” and read the book entirely on my own.
The afternoon that I learned to read I remember being elated, empowered, and felt like a whole new world was unlocked.

As I take a deep dive into my memory banks, the one takeaway I have from my childhood is the world was a vastly different place in some important ways. The most profound difference between life then and now is the proliferation of computers and mobile devices. Up until the widespread use of smartphones people gave their undivided attention when in one another’s company without glancing at their devices every few minutes.
Total attention from the person I’m communicating with is probably the one thing I miss the most in our modern world. When I was a boy it was considered rude to even look at your watch when you were speaking with someone.
Short of a total collapse of civilization or some Luddite backlash I can’t see us ever going back. The mobile phone will likely soon evolve to a combination of wearables and AR/VR glasses but, sadly, our attention will be forever fractured.
I hope you enjoyed these memories, there are lots more to come!
Steemit Blockchain Memory Project Rules of Engagement
- Share any significant memory you’d like to. Think about things that have shaped who you are or may be unique in some way. Think about memories you’d like your great-great-grandchildren to read about....now write posts about these memories in your Steemit blog.
- Use proper tags (see below)
- Share a link to this post in all of your Blockchain Memory Project posts so others can find the rules.
- Share your posts with your friends and family on external social media outlets (optional but encouraged).
Tag Suggestions
We want your memories to live on forever. We also want those memories to be searchable by those who might be looking for them in the future.
For this reason, I suggest the following tags for your first four - “Story Life Blog BlockchainMemoryProject”.
Your last tag should be very specific to what you’re writing about in your post, something that will help people who are searching for it on the internet.
I'll be sharing memories of my own along the way.
Prizes
Each month I will comb through the posts tagged with “BlockchainMemoryProject” and choose my favorites. The post owners will receive a surprise in their wallets...a portion of a monthly prize of 10 Steem! Note: all rules of engagement must be followed for your post to qualify.
As always, I thank you for reading.
Yours in the Chain,
Eric

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You are great writer , you written your memory in good method . Your pic is very cute .
Thanks @spiritualpower! It's hard to believe that picture is over 40 years old.
Very beautiful written story .
Always enjoy your article
Thanks dear Eric
Thank you!
I come from the fifties, but when I read your post, it was not so different in the early seventies for a small child.
Watching your watch was rude because it showed impatience to the person you were talking to and it told something like: I've spoken to you long enough and I want to leave. That is why it was 'forbidden' in my youth, but also in adult life. I am looking forward to more stories from you.
It's so funny you mention the fifties, @clio. As I was writing this I was thinking about how many remnants of the 50's were still lingering in the 70's. I still see "watching the watch" as rude as well because of my upbringing. It's funny, when I'm at a lunch or dinner with a group if one person looks at their phone a majority of others do very quickly. It's a social signal that it's okay.
Indeed, in the 70s. It's quite another time, I also waited for the same when my older sister reads my book before going to bed. Now, looking at my children, I see that they read only what they ask in school. Maybe it's my fault that I was not vaccinated they love the books. Although I think this generation of smartphones :) Interesting post. Thanks for sharing.
Hi sir, I am very interested and want to participate in the Steemit Blockchain Memory Project. Is it required to write in English, not in Indonesian? Thanks
Hi @akukamaruzzaman! Thank you for your interest! You're welcome to write in your home language. You can also use Google translate to convert your language to English if you'd like. Either way is fine!
This is my comment converted to Indonesian by Google Translate:
Hai @akukamaruzzaman! Terima kasih atas minat Anda! Anda dipersilakan untuk menulis dalam bahasa rumah Anda. Anda juga dapat menggunakan Google translate untuk mengkonversi bahasa Anda ke bahasa Inggris jika Anda mau. Either way baik-baik saja!
Nice to read your memories @ericvancewalton and how sad that now that we have all the tools of communication, we don't actually communicate fully! I really enjoyed going back in time, life was so different then, will be sharing more, thank you for the opportunity!
Thanks, @lizelle! I also see this problem as a ripe opportunity for someone to come up with a mechanism to provide us a few degrees of separation from our devices. The Apple Watch almost accomplishes this but it falls short. I see it as the best chance to achieve a better balance. Thank you very much for contributing!
@ericvancewalton, You're such a great experienced human in this platform and you've best memorable things I saw here. You and younger brother pretty awesome past days. I'm so interesting to read your past memory of childhood.
Exactly agree with your content above you mentioned here. Share with our memories, much important to build up more relationships and success our life on-wards with earning others support.
I'm also see this situation. With laptops and smart phones children leave from their relation's love. Children must needed love. But they find love through social medias. It not deserve and I cannot accept it. Thank you for giving your story to us.
#BlockchainMemoryProject would be awesome and I've seen some steemian's post and I'm enjoying read those. Stay blessed.
Thanks, @madushanka! The fractured attention is most sad for me in regard to children. I even notice people aren't paying attention to their pets anymore. 90% of the people I see walking their dogs in the neighborhood are either talking on the phone or looking at it.
Daily Learn some new from your post. Love to read it.
Hello Eric, my first in a series your memory project has inspired :-)) https://steemit.com/art/@natureofbeing/meeting-my-mentor-the-early-years-part-1
Awesome!!!